We are insecure.
We are jealous.
We’ve all experienced it. Once, twice, everyday.
Confidence is sexy. Jealousy will destroy your relationship. What Guys Don’t Like About Girls: Insecurity.
But I’ve been trained to believe that that it’s wrong. For every guy I’ve dated who has asked me “Who is he?” or “Did you tell him you have a boyfriend?”, he is protective, not bothered by it but bothered enough to inquire. It’s not a big deal. For every time I have asked “Who is she?” or “Did you tell her you have a girlfriend?”, I am crazy, irrational, unreasonable. A psycho bitch, if you may. Because some magazine, some television show, some friend of a friend necessitated it for me to be flawless. So instead of being honest and open, I’ll hold it in and be the perfect girl that I’m supposed to be. And if I can’t, I’ll be irrational and crazy, because a girl afflicted by momentary insecurity or jealousy is not a sexy girl. If I get insecure, I’ll stop eating. If I get jealous, I’ll look the other way. I won’t say a word because insecurity and jealousy are abnormal, unhealthy aberrations that just aren’t sexy at all.
