“Don’t do nice things for guys. For every time you do something nice for them, they’ll always have a reminder of how they could never measure up to you staring them in the face. Or they’ll make you their sugar daddy. You are not a sugar daddy. You are a baby mama. Don’t do nice things for them until they do something nice for you. You think you’re being nice and loving? They’re thinking they’re failures. Or they’re picking out a watch they want you to buy for them. They got to woo you girl. Unless he’s a nice guy. If he’s a nice guy, for every time you give, he’ll give back, sometimes even more.”
— F and his pearls of wisdom, entirely oblivious to what a baby mama really is.